Are Doctors Happy?
Like medicine, happiness takes practice. But when it comes to happiness, some say the deck is stacked against doctors. Left unchecked, physician unhappiness can lead to major problems, including disruptive behavior, burnout, medical errors, health problems, addiction, depression, and failed relationships. It takes ambition, perfectionism and drive to make it into — and out of — medical school and while those qualities may be very useful for achieving goals, they don’t tend to foster happiness and satisfaction.
Being a doctor also calls for critical thinking and a degree of pessimism, O’Connor says: doctors aren’t trained to look at the sunny side of life. They look for what’s wrong with a patient, not what’s right.
While the people who choose to become doctors may have an abundance of these qualities, “Medical training sharpens them to a needle point,” he says. The result: physicians often graduate from medical school with a degree, a tendency to be brutally hard on themselves, and a profound inability to relax.
So how’s a doctor to find happiness? The same way everyone should, says O’Connor: work on it. Find a way to be happy in the now.
I’m still working on ways to relax. It’s odd that even in this very relaxed fourth year of medical school, I find ways to fill all my time. I have become very used to being busy and utilizing my time efficiently, that it’s often difficult to just do nothing.
I certainly hope that I will be happy at work and outside of work.
Top 10 Reasons to Become a Doctor
On Medscape’s Differential, one of the medical student bloggers posted a great story responding to a former pre-medical student advisor and trained physician’s article, “The Top 10 Reasons Why You Should Not Go To Medical School…and the Single Reason You Should,” who has chosen not to practice medicine.
I think he really has some great points. There were and are times in medical school where I seriously thought, why am I doing this to myself? I definitely lost touch with some old friends and family. I see my friends continue on with their lives and grow up whereas I sometimes feel l like a perpetual student. I felt out of shape, I was really sick sometimes and just straight up exhausted. But, with the end in sight (May 11, 2012!!!!!!) honestly, it’s worth it. Time flies by in hindsight.
Last year, I made pretty extensive new year’s resolutions to be in better contact with my friends and family, make time to read books, cook, volunteer, knit, workout, write, and go out with friends, etc. And it’s been one of the most gratifying years for me. I really got to do all of these things during one of the busiest years of medical school, and write several journal articles (Four of which, will published in 2012, so far!). Better time management really allows you to whatever you want PLUS really feel like you are learning and helping people in a meaningful way. So many of these reasons not to become a doctor really disappear…but you have to really want it, remind yourself why you got into it in the first place and try.

